The rules at Infinity: consent, discretion and respect

Consent comes before everything else

In lifestyle venues the universal rule is that a no is respected the first time it is said. At Infinity that isn't a notice pinned to a wall; the club states it as the condition of entry.

In practice it is blunt and simple: you ask before you touch, and you ask before you join. Consent is spoken, never inferred: not from what someone is wearing, not from eye contact across the bar, and not from the fact that it's Thursday and the FKK Night Party has left half the room with nothing on. Undressed is not an answer.

It also only covers the moment it was given. A yes at the bar commits nobody to anything in the private area two hours later. People change their minds here, halfway through if they like, and that is treated as entirely normal.

• Ask once, out loud. Body language is not a contract.
• Couples decide together — one half saying yes isn't both of them saying yes.
• Anyone can stop at any point, including halfway.

Saying no, and hearing one

"No, thanks" is a full sentence. No excuse needed, no explanation of why not tonight. In a club like this, turning someone down is as ordinary as ordering a drink.

The correct response to a no is short: accept it, smile, move on. Don't negotiate, don't rephrase it and have another go by the lockers twenty minutes later. Persistence is the one thing that genuinely counts as bad manners in this environment.

If somebody won't take the hint, tell the staff. That isn't making a scene, it's the reason there are people working the floor. Whoever pushes is the problem; whoever mentions it never is.

Discretion, and why it matters more here

Some of the people you'll meet on a Saturday are in Playa del Inglés for a week. Others live here all year, work in the resorts, and would rather not be a topic at breakfast. Discretion isn't secrecy: it's letting everyone control who knows about their private life.

The rule is one line long. What happens inside stays inside. No names, no "you'll never guess who I saw", no retelling somebody else's night even with the names taken out. And if you pass someone from the club on the promenade the next day, let them decide whether to say hello.

On phones and cameras inside, ask at the door when you arrive. Every club draws that line for itself, and the team will tell you theirs in five seconds — safer than assuming what you read about somewhere else applies here.

Watching isn't joining in

There's a dance floor, a bar, a chill-out lounge, a private area and a VIP room, and each runs at its own temperature. The bar is where people talk, the floor is where the ice breaks, and the private area is somewhere you go when you feel like it and not a minute before.

That's where manners show. Watching, when the people in front of you are happy to be watched, has always been part of this scene. Standing a metre away in silence is not. Between the two there's one short question and the willingness to walk off pleasantly if the answer is no.

The same goes for conversation. A couple talking in the lounge isn't waiting for company by default.

What's expected of couples, single women and single men

The rules don't change depending on who you walk in with. The questions do.

Couples are expected to have had the conversation at home. Limits get agreed before you go out, not at three in the morning, and speaking for your partner — "she's up for it", "he doesn't mind" — is the quickest way to spoil an evening. If one of you slows down, both of you do. Wednesday's Couples Night is the calmest evening of the week and nobody there is in a hurry.

A woman on her own owes nobody anything: not a drink returned, not a dance, not an explanation for spending the night at the bar. Her pace is hers.

A man on his own is asked for the hard, simple thing: patience and reading the room. Ask once, take the answer, don't follow anyone around the club, and understand that standing nearby is not an invitation. Do it well and you'll barely be noticed, which here is a compliment.

The house rules come from the club, at the door

Everything above is what Infinity states publicly, plus how etiquette works across the scene. The specific house rules — what happens where, and how each night is run — are given to you as you arrive, and those are the ones that count. If anything here reads differently at the door, the door wins.

For anything you'd rather settle first, WhatsApp +34 646 44 71 34 or email info@infinityswclub.com. It's a private conversation, and asking beforehand is what most people who go on to have a good night quietly do.